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is it normal to orgasm when....

Is it normal to have an orgasm if you clench your abdominal muscles at the same time as your butt muscles? I mean...without any kind of *other stimulation*?

just wondering cause this this uhhh...happens to a...friend of mine... 8-) and I certainly don't want to ask anyone i know in real life....well it cant be too bad for you I suppose....

Wow. I'm gone a couple of days...

I think I understand the *near* orgasmic feeling - almost like you're about to sneeze... I think I've gotten it when doing sit-ups. Does that make sense?

laurabs,

your Avatar clearly shows that you are in midst of a huge ORGASM ...

By the way when did you get yourself snapped?  ;)

NJA

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It does work... I made a girl sit on my speaker cab (4x12)... oh yeah  8)

I'm too lazy to read 8 pages of vegweb chitter chattery... can any guys on here multi-orgasm? Have an orgasm without ejaculating and keep going?? Multiple times....

My ex-boyfriend does.... :-\

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Lotus... is that supposed to be a bad thing???? lol

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It does work... I made a girl sit on my speaker cab (4x12)... oh yeah  8)

I'm too lazy to read 8 pages of vegweb chitter chattery... can any guys on here multi-orgasm? Have an orgasm without ejaculating and keep going?? Multiple times....

my dh could when we first met-we was 22 or 23 then. He just turned 35 this week. no more. that's fine with me now!  ;D

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Would it be TMI if I said I was gonna go masturbate right now?  Yeah?  No?  Stupid question?

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Lotus... is that supposed to be a bad thing???? lol

He's my EX-boyfriend.  haha.

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:-D
Wow, this thread has made me laugh so frickin hard!

AC:  I can totally relate with you - almost with my bf but no problem alone.  WTF????  Maybe it's the guy though because, sad to admit, it has happened (wonderful, mind-blowing, OMFG! >:D) with someone else. 

Purely physical or do emotions really play a part in this??? (at least for women maybe???)

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AC:  I can totally relate with you - almost with my bf but no problem alone.  WTF????  Maybe it's the guy though because, sad to admit, it has happened (wonderful, mind-blowing, OMFG! >:D) with someone else. 

Purely physical or do emotions really play a part in this??? (at least for women maybe???)

Wait. I think there's a misunderstanding. I want to clear this up quickly for my husband's sake.. ;)

I just meant that the really strong annoying sensation of the on the verge orgasm doesn't occur with masturbation..because there isn't so much build up. With any other sexual stimulation, the build up is WAY stronger (as is the orgasm)..so if it's taking a while (for whatever reason), it can be annoying. You know?

I hope you had fun, KMK.

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AC:  I can totally relate with you - almost with my bf but no problem alone.  WTF????  Maybe it's the guy though because, sad to admit, it has happened (wonderful, mind-blowing, OMFG! >:D) with someone else. 

Purely physical or do emotions really play a part in this??? (at least for women maybe???)

ugh.. with my boyfriend, i think i only have once in the last year. it's annoying.

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Ok, lubi and ac..im contributing.  ;D

I have seen, what i like to call, a "graph o fun", which basically charted the highs and lows of reaching/ getting to, an orgasm (for women, anyway). Ill see if i cant find it online somewhere....

I was watching oprah last week..and Dr. Laura Berman was on (shes a chicago sex therapist, and awesome for info)....but she explained that there are 3 ways for women to orgasm..clitoral orgasm, vaginal orgasm, and a combo of both. weeeeeee!
the gspot is about 1 inch up in the vagina...if your partner faces you and does the "come hither" with their index finger (i hope that makes sense)...they should find it. It can be annoying at first, if you arent aroused, once you are all hot and bothered, it also gets bigger.

Berman said that the clit is actually like 10-11 centimeters long. I was surprised.

and anything that increases blood flow to the important bits and pieces (ie exercise) and really good muscle control, will help you orgasm.

I *used* to almost be able to orgasm just by thinking about it.
man, i miss those days....  ::)  :)>>>

also, the clit feels like your nose, supposedly. and strangely enough, the nose has erectile tissue in it. so if you are orgasming, you may get a stuffy nose. funny, eh?

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Wow. I'm gone a couple of days...

I think I understand the *near* orgasmic feeling - almost like you're about to sneeze... I think I've gotten it when doing sit-ups. Does that make sense?

laurabs,

your Avatar clearly shows that you are in midst of a huge ORGASM ...

No no no! I'm hanging out with Socky the Cosmo. We don't have that kind of relationship.

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I wonder why guys always wake up with morning wood?????

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Wow. I'm gone a couple of days...

I think I understand the *near* orgasmic feeling - almost like you're about to sneeze... I think I've gotten it when doing sit-ups. Does that make sense?

laurabs,

your Avatar clearly shows that you are in midst of a huge ORGASM ...

No no no! I'm hanging out with Socky the Cosmo. We don't have that kind of relationship.

Sure you don't...

lubi - I think it's because your (anyone's) blood pressure is highest just when waking up, leading to, uh, stiffened extremities... or I could google it if i was less lazy. oh well...

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if your partner faces you and does the "come hither" with their index finger

Hey Cali!  Sound familiar from our Boston trip?

Cali was showing me how to use chopsticks, and she did the come hither motion with her finger.  We both just laughed.  'Twas quite funny.

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;D wow. lots of free time on our hands, eh?

i think g-spots are easy to find. but again, we know i'm a vagina diggin' pro  8-)

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;D wow. lots of free time on our hands, eh?

i think g-spots are easy to find. but again, we know i'm a vagina diggin' pro  8-)

you could teach a class!!!!

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;D wow. lots of free time on our hands, eh?

i think g-spots are easy to find. but again, we know i'm a vagina diggin' pro  8-)

you could teach a class!!!!

Next potluck?

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sounds good kmk, and I'll get everyone waxed before hand!

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sounds good kmk, and I'll get everyone waxed before hand!

fun!

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Yes! It's freaking normal to orgasm!

That's what I keep thinking when I see this thread title.

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