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meat and your sex drive...

Has anyone heard the ridiculous claim that people who don't eat meat have a lower sex drive than those who do eat meat because there's something in meat that revs up the ol' sex drive?  I've heard this one a couple times and it makes me so angry!  >:(  Like people need meat to be "normal" or something.  Argh!

Not everyone puts up their zip code, so if you switch from a zip search to searching the state--you should find more "options".

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that's true...i don't have my zip in (i dont think?). NY is a huge state to do that with though and, without a car, it makes things harder.

i did just send an email to one of my local matches. we'll see what happens from that. will keep the gang posted  ;)

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Hey Baypuppy, Ny isn't that far from Michigan, I'm getting pretty desperate, maybe I'll switch sides  :D

OK, I'm gonna go try the state search and see if anything else turns up  :-\

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the last guy i tried picking up totally rejected me because i wasn't "feminine" enough. well, okay, whatever that means.  :P one of my friends said, it's bad when you start trying to pick up guys....because you just want sex at that point.  :D (ohh where is s.bunny!?)

And what, my dear, are you implying?!

:o ??? ::) ;) :D ;D

Is it my fault my evil alter ego has a thing for trolls?!

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OK, I only got 3 more matches and while there were 2 that were super cute,  Ithink they are WAY out of my league...OK, back to picking up shlubs at the bowling ally...I'm so sad *as in both pathitic and sad sad*  :'(

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OK, I only got 3 more matches and while there were 2 that were super cute,  Ithink they are WAY out of my league...OK, back to picking up shlubs at the bowling ally...I'm so sad *as in both pathitic and sad sad*   :'(

huh?? super cute--what makes them out of your league? You can't mean too special for you. . .they are on a personals board, aren't they? (I don't mean that in an insulting way, but apparently, there aren't irresistable gals banging down their doors)  Whoever they are, they're probably looking more for your type than what they'll find elsewhere. . .y'know, cute, sweet, compassionate, healthy, VEG -can't get that just anywhere. Go go go - send 'em a wink or somethin'.

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Oh no! I  know better then to reach for the stars! Besides, guys that are really hot make me uncomfortable, I'd rather have a great, average looking  guy I can have a conversation with then someone who is hot and knows it. Pretty boys tend to be shalow anyways,  and I like to match wits not share hair tips with a guy...

Thanks for siting all my good points though 7! You're on my "uber awesome person" list!  :D :-* :D

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I dont know how well VegFriends works but give it a try.  Another option is to look into someplace like OkCupid.  You can search people who match your ideal or just search on "Veg".  Not that I know or anything.  *whistles innocently*

Baypuppy, you are such an awesome person.  I cannot believe someone had the gall to say anything like 'not feminine enough'. Blah!  They need their head checked for holes apparently because you are smart, witty, a cooking god and damn cute! 

Capture, not all 'hot' guys realize they are hot and have ego's that need to ride shotgun.  Some are just nice guys.  You cant tell them apart unless you chat with them!  Give it a go girl!

Meeting fellow vegwebbers, well I tried once.  I went up to Boston one weekend to meet Brad and *beats head on desk* Sa...someone else.  Unfortunately she (the someone else) got sick and Brad had car troubles.  But I enjoyed my meal at veg*n restaurant.  Man that was years ago! haha

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oh, capture, just try! as my friend told me, you get rejected 100% of the time you don't try. he also tells me that luck favors the bold, which i also think is the case  ;) at least that is what i figure everything i try picking up some hottie somewhere. it never works out, but i guess sometime it might?

myspace is another place to hunt for singles...at least it is free unlike most dating sites. at least you have hetero going for you. i rarely find a man sexually attractive. but again, it's rare i find a woman sexually atractive either. i have friends who date anything and everyone. it just seems odd to me. i don't consider myself nonsexual, but my attractions are really picky for some reason. i can't just mess around with anyone. no chemistry, no interest i guess.

s.bunny, your alter ego does have a troll fetish!  the whole thing with cv and habby was the best, uhh, whatever it was i had in a while. its sad when other's internet sexy talk gets incorporated into what one calls one's own 'sex life.'

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Oh *blush* you guys! I think I'll just stick around here and fish for more compliments! That way I get all the warm fuzzy feeling with out any of the realtionship drama!

Baypuppy, I completly understand the picky thing! I too am incredibly choosy with my mates (hence i haven't had one in 7 years..) I often find people attractive, but for me, I need SO much more then looks to get me really interested! Most of my partnered friends tell me I should just settle, but clearly that's just what they did and I would prefer to spend my nights with someone I love not settled for...besides, if your going to fight with someonw, don't you wnat to be with someone you'll enjoy making up with???

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true true! sometimes i wonder if all this relationship business is overrated. all my friends are coupled (minus a couple) and i'm at a point now where it's like, wow. i figure something will happen when something happens. all efforts on my part to find a mate have never worked out well. usually the random surprises work out the best.

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Cali...isn't Boston just ripe w/ vegan goodies (ie: yummy veg'ns)!!! they seem to swarm that town. :o :o :o

i have found, sadly, that being veg isnt criteria enough to date someone...it doesnt make them automatically smart, funny, interesting. sigh.  :P
there goes that theory.

but ladies, youse gots to get out and flex that dating muscle!! (i should heed my own advice ) as someone once told me: if you dont shoot, you dont score.  isn't there veg dating sites out there? i am at a point where im really not sure if i could really be w/ someone who wasn't veg, its too much of daily, practical issue as it is a deep issue.
it IS frustrating. its like a desert here.  ;D

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well you know adamcrisis, women hit their prime at 40! And I speak with authority....Girls, it's true  :D

I luckily am well aware of this. Last summer I had a wonderful encounter with an older lady who I could not keep up with. It was a short fling but it was quite memorable.

That part of getting older doesnt bug me one but

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well you know adamcrisis, women hit their prime at 40! And I speak with authority....Girls, it's true  :D

I luckily am well aware of this. Last summer I had a wonderful encounter with an older lady who I could not keep up with. It was a short fling but it was quite memorable.

That part of getting older doesnt bug me one but

Well I have to giggle because I am 5 1/2 years older than my BF.  I am turning 49 this month.  I hope he thinks we are memorable too!  I still think I am a teenager and when it comes to certain things, I don't tire!!!   Honestly, I doubt I ever will.  Hope he can keep up with me! OK, he can!   ;D ;D ;D

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Has anyone heard the ridiculous claim that people who don't eat meat have a lower sex drive than those who do eat meat because there's something in meat that revs up the ol' sex drive?  I've heard this one a couple times and it makes me so angry!  >:(  Like people need meat to be "normal" or something.  Argh!

this is simple to solve, i know my wife would rather have a zucchini than a little ol hot dog.
Truthfully the scientific studies show that vegans have a lot more energy as well as STAMINA which is reasonable to believe because your body doesn't have to work as hard to process food.  and i ain't met a woman yet that likes a minute man. I mean the saying is give her a night to remember, not give her 5 minutes to remember. and as for sex drive. TRUST a man. before i was a vegan all i thought about was sex. Now that i am a vegan all i think about is sex

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Wow!  You all are crazy.  In a good way!! :)  Who knew that one question would get so many responses.  It just proves what I thought was true in the first place- veg*ns have no problem with their sex drives because they're so dang healthy.  Thanks, all!

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Baypuppy, I completly understand the picky thing! I too am incredibly choosy with my mates (hence i haven't had one in 7 years..) I often find people attractive, but for me, I need SO much more then looks to get me really interested! Most of my partnered friends tell me I should just settle, but clearly that's just what they did and I would prefer to spend my nights with someone I love not settled for...besides, if your going to fight with someonw, don't you wnat to be with someone you'll enjoy making up with???

i am with you guys there. i am sooo picky. and the people i like rarely like me in return :(. the sad thing is, i don't even care if the are veg or not. as long as the are respecting of it (which they obviously would be otherwise why would they have an interest in me). lately, i have just been putting myself out there. it's exhausting, but i am sort of having some luck i guess...

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Maybe we should start a club...what could be more functional then a bunch of love-lorn women attempting to find someone through each other???  :P

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Maybe we should start a club...what could be more functional then a bunch of love-lorn women attempting to find someone through each other???  :P

nothing at all...

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i know little2ant is gonna be in my 'hood soon. although i have no idea what she looks like.... can't hunt her down. also know that adamcrisis was comin' though on tour.... humm. i like to comfort of living behind the computer screen (thus why i havent emailed the above mentioned dude despite his wave at me. i'm clueless).

edit on: oh yea, we posted at the same time

LOL ;D  I just now saw this! I wish I had known you wanted to hook up! I would have made a point to get to Albany (we actually didn't get that way and ended up in Troy most of the time). We ate at some pizza joint and Plum Blossom. I actually envisioned myself wandering the streets of Albany in search of Baypuppy! Remember I did have that dream about you where I was at a check out counter and the girl's name badge said "Baypuppy"???

BTW, I am HOT!  ;)  I just don't like having my picture broadcast on my profile for some reason.  ::) 

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