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i know this is way off topic... but i don't know where else to go

i just found out this morning that my husband of 2 years has been cheating on me.  ... with multiple women at that.  i left the house at noon and have been driving since then.  it's now 8pm and i finally stopped at a motel.  i'm alone, upset and scared.  how could he do this to me?   :'(

yeah i did that's where i am right now.  mom's so sweet too, she went out this morning and picked up tofu and chickpea meatballs!!!  she made me cry

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Aw, that's so nice of your mom.  And so great that you get to be with your family.  Have you told them everything yet?

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I am sorry you are going through this. He sounds like a total a-hole. Don't let a guy treat you like that, with no access to your own money. He has some serious issues. Be glad you found out now, before you lose more time to this loser. Move on with your life and there are lots of nice guys out there, don't settle for a jerk.

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dude moms are the best

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dude moms are the best

Word!

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so this is the song he replies back with

Another turning point, a fork stuck in the road
Time grabs you by the wrist, directs you where to go
So make the best of this test, and don't ask why
It's not a question, but a lesson learned in time

It's something unpredictable, but in the end it's right.
I hope you had the time of your life.

So take the photographs, and still frames in your mind
Hang it on a shelf in good health and good time
Tattoos of memories and dead skin on trial
For what it's worth it was worth all the while

It's something unpredictable, but in the end it's right.
I hope you had the time of your life.

It's something unpredictable, but in the end it's right.
I hope you had the time of your life.

It's something unpredictable, but in the end it's right.
I hope you had the time of your life.

.....  hope i had the time of my life????    oh yeah...  sure did  :whatever:

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so this is the song he replies back with

Another turning point, a fork stuck in the road
Time grabs you by the wrist, directs you where to go
So make the best of this test, and don't ask why
It's not a question, but a lesson learned in time

It's something unpredictable, but in the end it's right.
I hope you had the time of your life.

So take the photographs, and still frames in your mind
Hang it on a shelf in good health and good time
Tattoos of memories and dead skin on trial
For what it's worth it was worth all the while

It's something unpredictable, but in the end it's right.
I hope you had the time of your life.

It's something unpredictable, but in the end it's right.
I hope you had the time of your life.

It's something unpredictable, but in the end it's right.
I hope you had the time of your life.

.....  hope i had the time of my life????    oh yeah...  sure did  :whatever:

what an immature dickface.  like he can even pretend that this is just some 'turning point' for the two of you. 

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there are lots of nice guys out there, don't settle for a jerk.

Thank you.  Not every guy is a piece of trash.

IBK, you can do so much better.  I Promise.

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there are lots of nice guys out there, don't settle for a jerk.

Thank you.  Not every guy is a piece of trash.

IBK, you can do so much better.  I Promise.

there are poopy people of all genders
i hate it when people say stuff like "guys can be such assholes!!"
um, i think what you meant to say was "people can be such assholes!!"
but people can also be super awesome

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there are lots of nice guys out there, don't settle for a jerk.

Thank you.  Not every guy is a piece of trash.

IBK, you can do so much better.  I Promise.

there are poopy people of all genders
i hate it when people say stuff like "guys can be such assholes!!"
um, i think what you meant to say was "people can be such assholes!!"
but people can also be super awesome

And thank you.
;)b

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there are poopy people of all genders
i hate it when people say stuff like "guys can be such assholes!!"
um, i think what you meant to say was "people can be such assholes!!"
but people can also be super awesome

I say those things. In my defense, I pick the gender of the person being poopy at the time.  ::)

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ugh feeling alone and shity tonight.  mom tries to help and make me feel better, but she goes a lil over the top, i don't want to talk about it all day and all night.  then she mentioned that i haven't gotten my wedding pics from the photographer yet (it's been 2 years), she paid alot for them and wants me to get them printed....

uh yeah.... 

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ugh feeling alone and shity tonight.  mom tries to help and make me feel better, but she goes a lil over the top, i don't want to talk about it all day and all night.  then she mentioned that i haven't gotten my wedding pics from the photographer yet (it's been 2 years), she paid alot for them and wants me to get them printed....

uh yeah.... 

http://i292.photobucket.com/albums/mm38/iCe-quEen99/emoticons/1529490am2rdtt44g.gif

Um.yea... gee I can't imagine why you wouldn't want your wedding photos...*blerg* well...maybe you can look over the prints and find ones of just you and your brides maids? Seriously, why would your mom want pics of you and her ex-SiL anyways??

Big hugs for you IBK--I'm so glad that you are in a safe place now, even if your mom is a little over bearing, at least you know you're in a warm, safe place with people that LOVE you!!! Just tell your mom you need some time to think about the sitch and would like a distraction from it--if that doesn't work, just hang out in your room--with the door closed *lol*!

Love ya!!!!

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well i got in contact with a bunch of friends to keep me sane.  i'm going to Toronto this weekend to hang out with them.  It's going to be nice to get out. 
thank god for facebook!  ;D

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i'm downloading some songs for my mp3 player, gonna start working out this month, wanna lose some weight and take care of myself

need some motivating songs.  :)

here's what i have right now:

justin timberlake - what goes around
justin timberlake - cry me a river
xtina - fighter
pink - there you go

anything that's upbeat and rockin' that you guys love???  music always makes me feel better/stronger!!

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M.I.A.
and this really cute french group called yelle
two of my faves right now

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Actually, one of my favorites is Nickelback: Rock Star.

'Cause who doesn't wanna be a big rock star??  8)

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Tee Hee, i love Yelle, though, translated, all her songs are extremely dirty  ;) I'm lovin the new britney spears, mmm papi, if you seek amy. (i got the new CD). Blink 182 is my favorite band ever, whats my age again, dammit, rock show (all good songs). This techno group, basshunter, they have swedish or german and english stuff (angel in the night, all i ever wanted, dota). Oh oh oh! this really cool guy, owl city is the name of the "band" which is just one guy, this song, rainbow viens, i'm seriously in love with it, look it up!!!!!
Yay happy music  :>

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haha mia!! i like her.  especially paper planes.  i have a feeling thats the hit or something.

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freakin' Mindless Self Indulgence....that is one of my favorite bands to listen to when i work out....but be careful, you could get your heart rate up too high!  :D

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