i know this is way off topic... but i don't know where else to go
Posted by itsybitsykristy on Dec 09, 2008 · Member since Sep 2008 · 155 posts
i just found out this morning that my husband of 2 years has been cheating on me. ... with multiple women at that. i left the house at noon and have been driving since then. it's now 8pm and i finally stopped at a motel. i'm alone, upset and scared. how could he do this to me? :'(
i just finished bawling my eyes out. i feel better now. i think things have finally really sunk in.
it went well, i called him after i got my stuff. my cell died mid explanation "i'm leaving you" "really?" "yes, i packed all my things in the car" "where are you" "on my way back to my parents" then that was it, it cut us off.
he didn't call after that to see how i was doing or anything. he's still out getting drunk with his friends (it's now 3:30am, i called him at 7pm).
the reason why i was crying was because he dad called me after i had sent an email, asking what was going on. he was upset and said that i was his daughter and i didn't deserve to be treated like this, and he didn't raise his son to be like that. he said if i needed a place to stay, their home was always mine.
i'm so close to his family and i'm really going to miss them. i think that's going to be the hardest part. :'(
i just finished bawling my eyes out. i feel better now. i think things have finally really sunk in.
it went well, i called him after i got my stuff. my cell died mid explanation "i'm leaving you" "really?" "yes, i packed all my things in the car" "where are you" "on my way back to my parents" then that was it, it cut us off.
he didn't call after that to see how i was doing or anything. he's still out getting drunk with his friends (it's now 3:30am, i called him at 7pm).
the reason why i was crying was because he dad called me after i had sent an email, asking what was going on. he was upset and said that i was his daughter and i didn't deserve to be treated like this, and he didn't raise his son to be like that. he said if i needed a place to stay, their home was always mine.
i'm so close to his family and i'm really going to miss them. i think that's going to be the hardest part. :'(
I'm so sorry! I'm sure you'll get through this. You have so many people that love you you deserve better as he said....an d you'll get better! ;D
he stills hasn't called. fuck he's so immature. he's never had to be held accountable for anything in his life. i don't want to make this difficult, but i can tell already he's going to make it hard, he changed the password to our bank account online so i don't even have access to view it.
my email
Are we discussing this after the holidays?
his email
I thought that was the plan all along! I can’t believe you would do this 4 days before Xmas... meanwhile telling me all along that we were going to get through this and talk it out and that you love me!? Maybe this IS for the best.
Thanks for draining the bank account. The car payment comes out in 2 days! YOU can call Marguerite and tell her she’s not getting any money because you have it all.
We can talk when I’m not so pissed off.
Oh wow what a cool guy.
What was that you said about zero accountability? Oh right - he just proved it.
*Is angry and would kick him for you if I was in the same hemisphere*
How is it going?? ???
alright, i had to create a new profile for some reason... cant log into the old one.
i'll update in a few mins. just got outta the bath ;)
well, things are good... living with my parents for now. have a lawyer and i'm getting stuff done.
i'm taking care of myself and surrounding myself with friends. got in touch with a lot of friends i haven't talked to in years (thank god for facebook!)
i'm actually heading out in a few mins to see a friend, she was my best friend in highschool. i saw her last week and was so nervous that we may not have anything in common anymore, but we totally do! and she's a vegetarian!!! she started around the same time as i did! crazy. :)
i have to go up there next weekend to get the rest of my stuff, but then that's it... seperation papers will be served.
i have taken this pretty well, i feel like a new person and i love the freedom i have now!!! i dont have to ask him first before i do stuff, now i just do it and have fun!
been working out everyday, and i even found some cool vegan stores close by, didn't have that where i was living before!!
so yeah... things are great. :)
thanks so much for listening!!!!!! i don't know what i'd ever do without vegwebbers!!!!!
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K
That's AWESOME IBK!!! I am so, so, so, so happy that youare doingso amazing well and that things are working out so well for you!!! YEAH!!!! Big love for you dear heart!!!
Kisses!!! :)>>> :)>>> :)>>>
many years later --- decided to pop back on here and say Hi to anyone who's left here. I am now living in my hometown with my boyfriend of 3 years... we're planning to have a family together. Everything is so much better. I have a great job as a 911 dispatcher. I just wanted to come on and say to anyone else who may be going through something shitty in their life right now that IT DOES GET BETTER!
I couldn't be more happy with where I am today!
thanks to my veg web friends for the encouragement and support I got during those hard times!
:)>>>
Welcome back, IBK!! I've seen your avatar lately and I remembered all the tough times. I'm glad it's working out for you!! We've missed you!!
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