I have a question for you married people.  If your spouse is totally able to work (no physical or debilitating mental handicaps including drug addiction) and (s)he is really intelligent but has a really hard time getting a job and for the last ten years has been let go from every single one of the few (s)he's had, would you continue to stay with him/her?  At what point do you "pull the plug"?  This is not a rhetorical question but I'd rather not go into details.  I'd just like your thoughts on the issue.