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is it normal to orgasm when....

Is it normal to have an orgasm if you clench your abdominal muscles at the same time as your butt muscles? I mean...without any kind of *other stimulation*?

just wondering cause this this uhhh...happens to a...friend of mine... 8-) and I certainly don't want to ask anyone i know in real life....well it cant be too bad for you I suppose....

I've never had period oral sex, but I imagine it would be quite funny for the guy to come up with a face full of blood.  That sounds like fun times.

That happened accidentally once... I felt bad. He's like, "wow, you're really wet..."

Yeeeeah...

Congratulations for making me :-D.
;)b

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I guess things got jostled around or whatever and I would sprung a leak, so to speak.

HAHAHAHHAHa I like your wording.

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Insert picture of Andrew WK album cover...no, I'll pass.

OK, you asked for it....

http://sleevage.com/wp-content/uploads/2007/11/andrew_wk_cover_500.jpg

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I guess things got jostled around or whatever and I would sprung a leak, so to speak.

HAHAHAHHAHa I like your wording.

Haha, thanks.  Oh, and it's meant to say, "would SPRING a leak."

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Haha, thanks.  Oh, and it's meant to say, "would SPRING a leak."

I wasn't being picky about the wording, I just liked how you said it and what you said!

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period oral sex? blargh. I wouldn't make my bf do anything I wouldn't do.

Plus, I'm not usually in the mood much when menstruating. I'm not grossed out by period sex (although it could probably get messy :/), periods are just like rainy days for me - as soon as it starts pouring, you can't get me to do anything but sleep.

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period oral sex? blargh. I wouldn't make my bf do anything I wouldn't do.

Plus, I'm not usually in the mood much when menstruating. I'm not grossed out by period sex (although it could probably get messy :/), periods are just like rainy days for me - as soon as it starts pouring, you can't get me to do anything but sleep.

It was an accident!!!

And I feel the same- it's a nice excuse break time to rest ;)

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I wouldn't even want oral during my period, but regular sex is cool except for the first 2 days, when I'm just too bitchy and bloated to really want sex anyway.

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I'm not a huge fan of sexy time when I am bloated immediately before my period.  But once that subsides, I'm good to go.

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i'm probably gonna regret asking this  :-[ lol, but does anyone know what to do about an extremely low sex-drive? im talkin like... none at all

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i'm probably gonna regret asking this  :-[ lol, but does anyone know what to do about an extremely low sex-drive? im talkin like... none at all

Meds could do that (I don't want to ask you if you're on any, as that is not my business).
There are also possible medical conditions that could explain it.
Or, maybe it's normal for you. Nothing wrong with that, unless you're dissatisfied with it or it's causing you significant stress.

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i'm probably gonna regret asking this  :-[ lol, but does anyone know what to do about an extremely low sex-drive? im talkin like... none at all

Meds could do that (I don't want to ask you if you're on any, as that is not my business).
There are also possible medical conditions that could explain it.
Or, maybe it's normal for you. Nothing wrong with that, unless you're dissatisfied with it or it's causing you significant stress.

the only meds i take, sometimes, is anxiety meds like clonazepam or lorazepam... but thats rarely.  i'm depressed but i've always been that way and my drive used to be pretty normal, if not high. the only reason i'm asking is because it does cause stress. my boyfriend gets in a bad mood because i'm never in the mood, and i feel bad about it

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the only meds i take, sometimes, is anxiety meds like clonazepam or lorazepam... but thats rarely.  i'm depressed but i've always been that way and my drive used to be pretty normal, if not high. the only reason i'm asking is because it does cause stress. my boyfriend gets in a bad mood because i'm never in the mood, and i feel bad about it

Ok, here's "mean" Meggs: He needs to get over it.
Here's regular Meggs: I'm sorry that it's causing you distress. I wish I had an answer for you, but I do not. As you said, though, it has been normal, even high, in the past, so maybe this is a phase?

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the only meds i take, sometimes, is anxiety meds like clonazepam or lorazepam... but thats rarely.  i'm depressed but i've always been that way and my drive used to be pretty normal, if not high. the only reason i'm asking is because it does cause stress. my boyfriend gets in a bad mood because i'm never in the mood, and i feel bad about it

Ok, here's "mean" Meggs: He needs to get over it.
Here's regular Meggs: I'm sorry that it's causing you distress. I wish I had an answer for you, but I do not. As you said, though, it has been normal, even high, in the past, so maybe this is a phase?

Maybe it's him. I mean, I haven't been all too pleased with the sounds of him (not that I really KNOW), but maybe you just aren't attracted to him anymore.

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i'm probably gonna regret asking this  :-[ lol, but does anyone know what to do about an extremely low sex-drive? im talkin like... none at all

You could have low zinc levels.  Try eating some pumpkin seeds.

;)b

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i'm probably gonna regret asking this  :-[ lol, but does anyone know what to do about an extremely low sex-drive? im talkin like... none at all

Sariea, I certainly don't know anything about you and your boyfriend's relationship but maybe...just maybe, he's been making YOU feel unattactive, thus the minimal interest.  In other words, when a guy starts to harp about the way a girl looks, or if he's disgruntled about certain aspects of her body, how can that not affect self-esteem and not make her self-conscious?  I don't know if that's the case with your relationship but it does happen often.  Certainly, a low sex drive can be attributed to other physical explanations but never underestimate the mind and how one perceives one's self sexually.  I know he's young but maybe your boyfriend  needs to give you some sexual  breathing room and just love you for who you are.

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i'm probably gonna regret asking this  :-[ lol, but does anyone know what to do about an extremely low sex-drive? im talkin like... none at all

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Or, maybe it's normal for you. Nothing wrong with that, unless you're dissatisfied with it or it's causing you significant stress.

Heh, I know it's normal for me. That's why I'm still a virgin at my age. ::) (Should I have said that in the TMI thread? Nah.)

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i'm probably gonna regret asking this  :-[ lol, but does anyone know what to do about an extremely low sex-drive? im talkin like... none at all

...
Or, maybe it's normal for you. Nothing wrong with that, unless you're dissatisfied with it or it's causing you significant stress.

Heh, I know it's normal for me. That's why I'm still a virgin at my age. ::) (Should I have said that in the TMI thread? Nah.)

IMHO, a thread with the word "orgasm" in the title has very few restrictions.

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i'm probably gonna regret asking this  :-[ lol, but does anyone know what to do about an extremely low sex-drive? im talkin like... none at all

Sariea, I certainly don't know anything about you and your boyfriend's relationship but maybe...just maybe, he's been making YOU feel unattactive, thus the minimal interest.  In other words, when a guy starts to harp about the way a girl looks, or if he's disgruntled about certain aspects of her body, how can that not affect self-esteem and not make her self-conscious?  I don't know if that's the case with your relationship but it does happen often.  Certainly, a low sex drive can be attributed to other physical explanations but never underestimate the mind and how one perceives one's self sexually.  I know he's young but maybe your boyfriend  needs to give you some sexual  breathing room and just love you for who you are.

theres just so many things that have been changing i dont know what it could be, or it could be all of it, which is kinda depressing. finding out about the endometriosis, starting different bc (which i'm hoping helps cuz it has higher estrogen), actually finding out how much i weigh, being depressed and stressed. i'm hoping when my doc gives me mood stabalizers this week it'll help.

im gonna stop talkin about it though, i don't wanna ruin the fun thread lol

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BC could definitely be affecting your libido. But so could all those other things.

You don't have to stop talking about it! Plus, pervs need an occasional break from their perversion (or else it will lose it's fun).

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