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The Moratorium Auditorium: In Which We Unite In Shunning Inadequacy

Crossover from the open letters thread!

Represent.

:-*

meggs- i have a gf coming to town for a a girls valentines weekend of food & fun - man-free!  if you feel like joining for any of it - you are more than welcome to.. i believe a chicago diner trip might be on the agenda & we're gonna see tim meadows on the 15th..

& you should totally come to my potluck on wednesday!

*ok end thread hijack*

I  :)>>> you for thinking of me and inviting me, but Wednesday is jam-packed with school and a meeting in the suburbs after school and V-day I am busy (man-free. Meggs pamper day. Hair done. Food and friends.)

*****

Yay Lubi is here!

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I also wanted to clarify the reason I was so pleased about my ability to blow off 'the friend' wasn't about getting even or being a bitch, it was about doing something that was good for me even though it was hard.  A month ago, I wouldn't have been able to resist writing back a long, witty email.  My initial reaction when I saw I had a message from him was still excitement, but I was able to control that and assess the situation before making a decision about how to respond.  Progress!


He's a jerk. Not worth the wit. I don't like him.

>:(

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I browsed more in search of the smutty threads.  I didn't want to miss out!  I would say this thread doesn't apply, but I'm happy I found it.  FROF.

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I haven't gone through and read all of the posts, but is this where the heathens are posting now? ;)

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yey! all the pervs are here!!!  :D

it will be so boring in the other threads that they will be begging for us to talk about sex!!!

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I  have a question about the FROF.  If, let's say, the third conversation isn't good, is:

1.  communication cut and it's all over?
2.  that conversation doesn't count, but the next once counts as the third conversation? or
3.  the count starts at one for the next conversation?

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I  have a question about the FROF.  If, let's say, the third conversation isn't good, is:

1.  communication cut and it's all over?
2.  that conversation doesn't count, but the next once counts as the third conversation? or
3.  the count starts at one for the next conversation?

I would also like clarification. I did not know Foofie invented the rule of fours and I had tried it previously, but this must be where I screwed it up. I think I counted things when they weren't supposed to count.

CK went stealth! 
Are we heathens?

MDV, I think that you're absolutely right- you proved your point to yourself and that is what matters. It's ok that you still liked getting an e-mail from him; I think that's normal. For a long time, I relished in getting e-mails/texts/calls from the ex... but I had to resist giving any feedback whatsoever so that he knew it was over. I really (deep down) hated it, when I got honest with myself, because I didn't want him to move on- I wanted him to keep wanting me, even though I didn't want him. This moratorium is so good for me.

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I would just like to say that I love you all.

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i don't think we qualify as heathens..  the moratorium puts a moratorium on that pretty much...

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i don't think we qualify as heathens..  the moratorium puts a moratorium on that pretty much...

But we are still talking about sex, PPC.  >:D

"Let's talk about sex, bay-bee, let's talk about you and meeee"
Do you think we'll break out into song a lot on this thread?

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penis

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SEX.

Ahh, now I feel better.
Katie and I "broke in" our new day bed the other day.  We haven't broke in the trundle yet, though.
My experience of making love to the woman that I love has just been officially cheapened.

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i don't think we qualify as heathens..  the moratorium puts a moratorium on that pretty much...

But we are still talking about sex, PPC.  >:D

"Let's talk about sex, bay-bee, let's talk about you and meeee"
Do you think we'll break out into song a lot on this thread?

I really hope so.  One day, I hope to have videos and a theme song.

??? ;)

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I love this thread and everyone on it.

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I love this thread and everyone on it.

The feeling is mutual. ;)b

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I also want to see MDV's videos/theme song.  For some reason, I picture a Flash Dance themed video, leg warmers and all.  ???

Was that Flash Dance? Leg warmers?

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CK went stealth! 
Are we heathens?

I did go stealth.  I almost left vegweb entirely, but decided against it.

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OK, so I've been lurking on this thread. I didn't really think I could contribute much since I'm happily married, but since CK & AC are here, I'm guessing I'm allowed too.

This reminded me of something funny

penis

I was over my parents house with a bunch of different family friends & an uncle picked up the toddler by the back of his diaper (to help him up a stair). My sister got all weirded out & was like, is that ok, didn't that hurt him? The baby's mom said, what do you mean? My sister: well I mean, umm I wouldn't think you could pick up a boy like that, wouldn't it hurt his -you know?

This is when I chime in: HIS WHAT, PENIS? WHAT"S WRONG? YOU CAN"T SAY PENIS? WHATS THE BIG DEAL? PEEEEENEEESSSS

yeah- she wanted to kill me.

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CK went stealth! 
Are we heathens?

I did go stealth.  I almost left vegweb entirely, but decided against it.

:( You are not allowed to leave. Some days I feel like leaving too. They are usually when I'm in a foul mood anyway & then I read some posts by people who annoy me. The trick is to just try to ingore the ones that annoy you.

If that is even why you were thinking of leaving. I don't know why I just assumed you feel the same as me

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CK went stealth! 
Are we heathens?

I did go stealth.  I almost left vegweb entirely, but decided against it.

:( You are not allowed to leave. Some days I feel like leaving too. They are usually when I'm in a foul mood anyway & then I read some posts by people who annoy me. The trick is to just try to ingore the ones that annoy you.

If that is even why you were thinking of leaving. I don't know why I just assumed you feel the same as me

That's why I usually want to pack up and leave.
No leaving, CK. And I like your story, Lisa.

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