Oh no! i hurt him!! Need advice...HAPPY UPDATE
:)>>> So guys, I'm in a relationship now and need advice from folks with experience...
So, something embarrassing happened...I hurt my boyfriend's tongue...I have not kissed very many people before in my life and I know I'm not really great at kissing but...well so now I know I'm really bad. So...we were kinda sucking on one another's tongues and I sucked too hard...one time he pulled back and told me so I tried to be more gentle...but last night we were kissing and he said he was having a hard time with it cause his tongue was hurt from the day before. He showed me under his tongue and where it connects to the floor of his mouth, it was all red and- swollen! OMG. I felt terrible. I still keep thinking about it today. He told me not to worry about it and that he still loves kissing me. And playfully suggested that we should "practice every chance we get" ::)
Its almost like I cant tell how hard I am sucking or something? I don't know...When i went to bed I practiced sucking on my finger, to see if I could do it real gentle...but...I'm not sure what to do. I wonder if this has ever happened to anyone else before? I'm pretty embarrassed. I love him sooo much I hate to think of hurting him. Any kissing tips? :-*
Kiss without sucking the tongue! Just kiss on the lips, suck on the lips, move the tongue around...whatever. Just keep yourself from sucking on the tongue!
Think of sucking a runny smoothie through a straw. That is about the hardest you can suck a tongue safely.... Not that I haven't learned this through experience.... *looks up in the air whistling* ::)
Well, at least let him heal. ;)
it's a good thing you only hurt his tongue.....
lubi, my thoughts EXACTLY!
good to see you zealia! :flower:
Congratulations Zealia! I'm glad to see you so happy!!!
Wow! Congratulations!! :D
So injured tongues lead to marriage, huh...