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I'm a big fat vegan!

*sigh* It's true! I've always been, as cartman would put it "Big Boned" or "Festively Plump" & sometimes I haven't minded & sometimes I have & tried diet after diet. Well Now is another time I mind, mostly because I seem to have put on lately (cold weather I think) & it has to stop.

So why am I telling you this? Well I was hoping that for my sake there may be some other vegans in my situation who want to do something about it, perhaps we could email our progress once a week or something? I'm off to buy a proper scale this morning I'm terrified but I know it's nesseccary.

So firstly I'd like some tubby buddies to talk to & secondly, anyone who has been there & done that I would love to hear how. How do you stay motivated? What did you eat? What did you absoloutly not eat? How did you manage cooking for partners or family?

Oh, I'm also sick of hearing "I thought vegans were skinny?"!!!  ???

Tell us action you decide to take & keep us posted. If you want to do weekly check in, I would love that. We have discussed that here before, but it doesn't seem to happen.  ;) 

I think this would be a good idea for me. The only time I ever lost a significant amount of weight, ever, was when I was going to WW - was terrified of 'putting on' & for anyone else to know it. How dopey is that? I'm supposed to want to lose weight for ME, yet I don't mind dissapointing myself, just everyone else!! What should I post for a start? Should I do it here? Let me know & I'll swallow my pride.  :-\

Yesterday was okay eating wise - cereal w/fruit, crackers w/tomato, more fruit &.... (don't hurt me) pizza. I know. It ofcourse had no cheese which is a start, & a thin base - not THE worst choice was it?? (I know I'm just trying to make myself feel better)

It seems that exercise is my big problem. That & eating crap, but I've never exercised consistently for more than 2 weeks at a time (the limit of my enthusiasm). I get disheartened because a) I feel hungrier when I exercise & b) I never notice any difference.

I've had & disgarded an exercise bike, weights, a gym membership & my latest; a regular bike. What about walking? How much would I need to walk to make up for my lazy ways?? It's very hilly around here (hence the bike abandonment) & the dog needs walking so I think that's something I could, & should do.

Thanks again for your support.  :)

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Dog walking sounds good...it's healthy for both of you, and it could be fun for both of you as well!
It's always nice to have an exercise buddy...and you won't find a more enthusiastic walking buddy than a dog!

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How much would I need to walk to make up for my lazy ways?? It's very hilly around here (hence the bike abandonment) & the dog needs walking so I think that's something I could, & should do.

I LOVE walking.  I'm the Forest Gump of walking.  A pound is 3500 calories (approximately:  1/2 kg is 3,500 kcal).  Walking burns approximately 100 calories a mile.  So, if you want to lose a pound a week, you need to either not consume or use 500 calories.  If you walk two miles a day and cut 300 calories out of your diet, then you'll lose 500 calories a day.  It takes about 2,000 steps to walk a mile (1.6 km), so if you got a pedometer and didn't want to walk 2 miles (3.2 km) everyday, you could walk, say 1 1/2 miles (2.4 km) and add 500 steps to what you do throughout the day.

Another thing you could do is figure out how many carbs, proteins, and fats you eat.  Maybe someone has a better guideline, but I use 50% of calories from carbs (4 cal/g), 20% from protein (4 cal/g)  and 30% from fats (9 cal/g).  Your body may be more inclined to lose weight if you're eating a balanced diet.  I average 1,400 calories a day when I eat a lot of carbs and 1,200 calories when I eat the right amount of protein.  If you're the same, then there's 200 calories already and you're eating healthier and more balance, too.  I'm not saying you should only eat 1,400 calories, that's just my natural amount but I think it's low to what people are supposed to be getting.

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Hi there!
I am a vegan nutritionist, who has studied this stuff for almost two decades...I love food, and have had to work all my life to gain mastery over my eating and habits. Being a vegan does help in many ways, but I know firsthand that it doesn't guarantee being thin!
Just on a personal note, I have been a vegan for the past 16 years, and was 40 pounds overweight for many years.
Six years ago, I lost the 40 lbs. by doing a few things. Mainly, eating in balance, eating high fiber foods, drinking lots of water, eating lots of fruits, veggies, and beans, and reducing foods that were low value, such as fried foods and refined foods.
Of course, exercise speeds up the process.
It really is a lot of common sense...eating more "high value" (beans, veggies, etc...) and less "low value"(chips, white rice, etc...)
There is no need to deny yourself the foods you enjoy; they must just be eaten in moderation and balance. And of course, eating less in general helps so much.
Hope that is a little helpful! It worked and works for me!
:)
www.quintessence.homestead.com

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Good advice, Quintess! I'm going to take your advice.

But, as far as exercise goes, I was just like you VeganVic. The thing that worked for me is that I had to find something I enjoyed doing. Walking ... boring. Running ... boring, ect. But I found martial arts to be fun and GREAT exercise! I've stuck with it for the past 6 years. Which, for me, is a MAJOR change. I'm not telling you to do it, but you have to find what works for you. Maybe hiking would be fun, or tennis, or swimming or .... you get the idea. Try different things.

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I agree with KarateKid. I hate walking, running (except on the beach, that's fun), counting calories, and going the the gym.  It's so boring to me and I never see results. Instead, I keep in shape and have fun by playing on 2 soccer teams (indoor in the winter), practicing yoga and meditation, and occasionally playing tennis/raquetball, softball, or volleyball with friends.  Eating every 2-3 hours to keep up metabolism is important along with staying hydrated. 

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I had been gradually gaining weight for a little over a year until I got about 20-30 lbs overweight (who's to say what the right weight is?)(that's about 10-14 kg I think). I'm in college and was warned about the freshman fifteen... well, looks like I think I'm two freshmen  :P  Anyways, I decided to finally change things after I went back to school this spring.

I had tried diets before, lemonade whatever, raw this, calorie restriction... I've come to the conclusion that a good diet for me is a diet, i.e. something I can actually live on, not a one-month stunt or something. I transferred to another school, so my diet changed from that alone, and I was stuck with campus food... I generally ate a little grain for breakfast (a bagel or toast or a clif bar), a big salad for one of my meals, and "regular food" for the other ("Chinese" fast food from the dining commons , black bean/brown rice/veggie burrito, or whatever kind of super-American food there was ), I let myself have a piece of chocolate a day (I will never leave chocolate out.  ::) ) and some sort of dessert-like thing after dinner (a cookie, some trail mix, etc). And nooooo snacking (unless I was monstrously hungry or got dizzy from low blood sugar or something)I didn't have much variety in food, thanks to a tiny school + being vegan.
But most importantly, I started being active. At home I'd walk every day or something like that, but never anything that would actually make me sweat. I started using the gym at school, and basically did the treadmill the whole semester. I worked up from a 5 minute fast walk (that's all I could handle! haha.) to 30 minutes of a moderate jog (5 mph) by the end of the semester (4 months), and did it every day (with the exception of a few lazy days  ::) ).

I've always had a low metabolism. At times I've made the determination to eat healthier, figuring out about how much I need to eat to get calcium, protein, the vitamins, etc, and what wound up happening is I'd gain weight! (and be reaaaally full). I just don't have enough room during my day to get all that stuff. It's like I'd have to choose between being a fat, healthy vegan and a not-fat vegan who may or may not be getting all she needs. Well, at a certain point I chose the latter. At the point that I was gaining weight, I wasn't even eating the estimated # of calories a gal my height and age should get. To make matters harder for losing weight, I found out after doing the treadmill for about a week that I have asthma (I never knew before 'cause I never did exercise!  ::) ).

I wasn't hungry all the time, but it did get hard to get motivated to exercise everyday. And by the end of the semester, I just barely got under the maximum for "healthy weight" for my gender/age/height/etc. I think a good, sweaty cardiovascular exercise is really important for those of us who have low metabolisms, and eating less but more often helps too.

Exercising was the last of many things I tried for losing weight, so I didn't expect it to actually work... and still eat my chocolate and fried tofu.

According to the treadmill, I "burned" about 200-300 calories per day from that thing, but it felt like waaaaaaaaaaaaaaay more. After building up the stamina, I was glad I did it because it meant I didn't huff and puff as much after going up stairs  :P

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Me:  I think it would be fun for us to get outdoors and post pictures of places we've walked or hiked...

TinTexas:  You do know that if you click on your vegweb profile there's a place to post your pictures, don't you?

:) Me:  I posted a couple of nature shots I took today on my regular walk.  Hopefully I can get more urban shots soon.

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Me:  I think it would be fun for us to get outdoors and post pictures of places we've walked or hiked...

TinTexas:  You do know that if you click on your vegweb profile there's a place to post your pictures, don't you?

:) Me:  I posted a couple of nature shots I took today on my regular walk.  Hopefully I can get more urban shots soon.

Yes, I know about the personal photo galley and I scanned my driver's license pic and put it in there.  I honestly don't like to have my picture taken so I don't have any more recent.  I look a little pissed in it but then that's how I look when a cop pulls me over!  My DH doesn't like for me to post pics that he's in, so that doesn't leave me many at all.  We had our picture taken for the church directory and when we get our set of prints, I'll scan that one and put it up.  I think I can scan just me in it. 

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I see that no one has posted on here for months, but i just read it and would like to vent about the topic as well, even if its late.  I was a vegetarian for 6 years before becoming vegan, and actually gained weight when i made the switch.  I since then have lost about 10 pounds but these last 5-10 constantly go on and off.  This really pisses me off because i am such an anal eater; moderate carbs that are only whole grain, no sugar (use splenda), no fried food or fatty ones, a dessert once a month, rarely drink, high fiber, lean proteins, watch sodium and so on.  The fact that i a obsess and people around me chow down on burgers and fries kills me!!! I try to ride my bike at least ten miles a few days a week, and my job has me on my feet all day!! I break down in tears sometimes over the frustration. Reading all these posts has made me feel better.

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Fallen, you're gorgeous.  Don't fret 5 pounds!

I've also gained weight switching to vegan, but I'm going to keep plugging along anyway... I just need to go to the gym more often... I've been a slacker!

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I'm in the not-quite-vegan and quite-plump category myself.  I don't seem to lose much when I'm eating vegan ... but I feel good.  =)  I have every sympathy for the "I thought vegans were skinny!" aversion... le sigh.

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I see that no one has posted on here for months, but i just read it and would like to vent about the topic as well, even if its late.  I was a vegetarian for 6 years before becoming vegan, and actually gained weight when i made the switch.  I since then have lost about 10 pounds but these last 5-10 constantly go on and off.  This really pisses me off because i am such an anal eater; moderate carbs that are only whole grain, no sugar (use splenda), no fried food or fatty ones, a dessert once a month, rarely drink, high fiber, lean proteins, watch sodium and so on.  The fact that i a obsess and people around me chow down on burgers and fries kills me!!! I try to ride my bike at least ten miles a few days a week, and my job has me on my feet all day!! I break down in tears sometimes over the frustration. Reading all these posts has made me feel better.

Oh man do I feel your pain! I have been battling my weight for the last 10 years now! I literally doubled my weight 2 years out of high school (100 lbs to 200 lbs) I managed to lose 60 of those pounds but I have been stuck at being "chubby"for the last 3 years. All around me I see people pigging out on fast food and rich deserts while I painfully count my calories and and munch on raw veggies--hey their great too--but I would rather eat a pile of fried snacks and pizza!Anyways--if I even look at these foods I gain weight while those around me stay thin---*grr*

Since returning to vegetarianism 8 weeks ago I have been charting my weight and weighing in once a week (same day/time for accuracy) so far i have flucuated 3 pounds each week--one week I'll be 140 the next 143--I was hoping that I would actually lose a little bit going vegi since i have cut out most of the processed foods I ate as an omni--but so far the battle continues...

I would love to buddy up with anyone else who wants to try losing weight!

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I recently joined sparkpeople.com It's a really helpful tool to track the number of calories you are eating along with the amoutn of exercise you get.  I fyou put in the amount of weight youd like to loose they give you calorie goals plus recommenda certain precentage of calories from carbs, protien, and fat and help you track that. I've learned that i need to eat less calories overall, but mor eof them from protien.

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I gained weight when I went veg 9 years ago because I thought if I ate cheese on everything it would be ok.  NOT!  I gained alot of weight, I mean alot.  Due to that and a breakup, etc....Anyway, about 3 years ago I decided I was literally going to die if I didn't get healthy so I started drinking protein shakes for breakfast and lunch and then I eat anything I want for dinner, and most of what I eat - not all, but most, is fried in a cast iron skillet.  I went totally vegan 2 years ago, so the cheese and eggs and ice cream are out.  Most of what I eat is sauteed and fried or it's soup/chili casserole type things.  I do lots of things with beans and corn tortillas and polenta and salsa.  Since it's summer, there are lots of good veggies in season so I put those on pasta and I eat tons of salad on the side with home grown tomatoes. 

The secret is to count the calories and exercise.  That is truly all there is to it.  I try to stay at  1400 calories a day.  Some days I go way over and if so, I don't beat myself up about it.  I drink wine on the weekends (liquid calories don't count).  I eat dark chocolate and vegan pie when the cravings are too much to bear.  I don't always succeed in staying under the calorie limit I've imposed upon myself.  But I've stayed true enough to it to lose 110 lbs over the last 2 years.  I do the equivalent of 3 miles of aerobics with 5lb weights 5 mornings a week, I park about 1/2 a block from my office and walk.  I walk up and down 85 stairs twice a day instead of taking the elevator.  I try not to expose myself to foods that are dangerous to me because I truly am a compulsive over eater.  Food is my drug, I literally cannot control myself around certain foods.  I can't keep jars of peanut butter around or packages of cookies or anything that you can eat a bit of and go back for more later. 

Sometimes I can stay really focused and disciplined and I feel very in control.  Sometimes I have cravings that make me eat a whole can of mixed nuts and an entire bag of potato chips or a whole container of PUrely Decadent.  But I just try to do better the next day.  I cook food that is delicious and healthy and comforting and at the same time I can make it taste like it came from a greasy diner if that's what I'm in the mood for.  I love to cook and drink wine and make up new sauces for pasta and combinations of veggies to put in it. 

It's a process and it's something I'll struggle with all my life.  I have never been skinny, nor do I want to be.  I like my curves.  I just want to be healthy and have a healthy self image.

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Thank you to whoever mentioned the Calorie-Count website. I just went there and signed up. I've always done points with Weight Watchers, and when I was doing poorly I'd quit writing it down because it was so ugly to look at. That website was nice because it has so much food in their database, which makes it easy to enter, and it calculates how many calories I need and calculates how many calories I burn with my exercise. It doesn't stress me for some reason. I like that.

I've been ovo-lacto for two months now, although I quit eating eggs very recently and am working on eliminating the dairy products. I have about 110-120 pounds to lose, and am truly hoping that the dietary change will help me. But even if it doesn't, I still feel better and will continue being a vegetarian!!

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Shiraz i am totally with you on the peanut butter thing; I can't be around it either (I once ate 4lbs of it in two weeks). 
Just checked out sparkpeople.com seems to have a lot of great tips and motivations

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OMG! I just joined SparkPeople.com too!  YAy!

I really like it..and it's FREE!

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Opera that's great! I have used sparkpeople for the past 2 or 3 weeks, just simply to use the nutritional tracker to track my protein/carb/fat intake.. and I have ended up losing about 3 pounds because I know exactly how many calories I need and how many cals are in each meal and snack I eat. It really helps to track all of that stuff, so you don't get too few (i used to undereat by accident frequently, being almost fruitarian, and that lowers metabolism) or too many calories.

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I'm going to give the unpopular suggestion of fasting! Quick and easy! Not really, but it's working for me.  
My roommate and I tried the Master Cleanse about a week ago, making the promise that if either of us passed out or threw up, we'd stop.  She threw up on the fourth day, so we stopped.  We're failures and quitters.  But really, I lost 6 lbs (that still haven't found their way back) in four days and don't need as much to feel full.  
I knew I should cut down on dairy before doing it, and afterwards I was hungry enough to eat anything (rocks and sticks were looking nice) so no dairy for me yet.  I just added up my calorie intake for the day and it's 590 right now and judging by the fact that the only thing I have in my refrigerator is 2 lemons, it probably won't go up that much by the end of the day. And I'm just not that hungry during the day.  Say what you will about the fad fast, but it really does teach you and your body the difference between hungry and content.

(I'm not saying starving yourself is a good and healthy way to lose weight, but I think fasts are okay if you have the right mind set, motivation and expectations. It can be a spiritual experience, as well as a good detox.)

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